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Self-Made Love -? ভালোবাসা কী? (1 Viewer)

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Love

Love is not what you like, choose or desire for. Love is an unspeakble feeling that you cannot reveal. It's a secret emotion. Holding someone's hand tighter is not love; rather, leaving those hands like the wings of a bird is love. Moving around someone driven by your desire is a selfishness, nothing else. Loving the people around you is a greater love than that. Without being centered on one person is a much more precious fact.

Great men are always different in the question of love. On the other hand, normal people ruin their life for love. Great people become greater for their love; they spread their love to mankind.

Lies, betrayals, secrets, lack of ethics, morals make our love questionable. These love loosen our tie with our friends, families, relatives and the close ones. Our time, thought, action, attitude everything become limited, narrow.

We cannot forget, we should not forget-. We are the fruit of this soil, this family, this society, and this earth. Leaving all behind, forgetting all responsiblities are not wise decisions; these are compared to the ultimate betrayal.

And a betrayer is not a lover at all. Moreover, an irresponsible person is not an ideal lover. Desire driven love perishes sooner. Feelings towards that person starts decreasing gradually. So, be aware of it.

Before being crazy, before being arrogant think again. Be reasonable. Try to question yourself again and again what you're going to do next. Be enlightened with the light of reason. Your one incorrect decision will make you and the individuals around you suffer in the long run.

Love yourself, before loving someone else; love your work, love your world what you have built. Respect logical attitudes of others. It is a precondition to have respect within you to be a good lover. First, be human- humanize yourself.
Choosing someone is not an option to select someone to make an affair.

Our heart is strange, deceptive, amoral. Educate it with reasons. Our wild thoughts dismantle our lives.

Our religion, parents, society declare love as a taboo feeling, because we are uncocious regarding love. We start neglecting everyone while we start loving a particular one. Is it fair? No, never.

It is necessary to build ourself specially if we hope to have someone special in our life to love. Think, how special you are. Then, rethink, how special person you deserve. The person you don't deserve if someway you get that person, think how long you can be able to hold him/her. Ultimately you will destroy that person's life. Yes, believe me, its true. An unmatched couple can never be happy. For instance, a pair of shoes is not usable. It looks odd as well.

Therefore, to be loved, cared, deserved to a special person, there is no alternative to build yourself as a special person.

Love is the most celibrated word in this universe and will always remain. Hope to love and be loved.
 

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